It’s about learning to remove yourself from those situations and getting yourself into the positive situations that’s the real key. Getting around a positive group of people. ~ Ben Drake  Do positive things so you have less time available for negative. Spend time planning a holiday or something, research …

Be your own hero. When you worry about impressing others, you have made them an idol or a God. Humans are imperfect, than when they disappoint because being human they will, then you are angry. ~ Gayle Scott  Make peace with yourself and you will be impressed with yourself. …

The only people that are angry at you for telling the truth are those living the lie. Be yourself and do not cheat your own soul. That is all that matters. Say something so stupid like get out my life then cause you just might get what you …

You have to take time, go for coffee chat, go to dinner chat. Not all men want to go right off to bed and do not ask that they want to get to know the girl to find what kind of person she is but if you do …

Those are few and far between. Those who have them hold them close because you are the lucky ones, be grateful. The things that you learn about the character of the people in your world, that change your thoughts of them. Calling you to move on. ~ SJ Adams  …

For those of us who haven’t learn to master these ways yet, although it may be a struggle, remembering to count blessings & knock down troubles daily if that’s what it takes. They say the journey of a thousand miles begins with one step even if they’re small …