Tag: thoughts

Some people can be mean & treat you poorly

Don’t give them that possibility or don’t allow them treat you poorly. It’s your responsibility to put a wall or let them break that wall. Even that is better without walls, with some people is necessarily. ~ Tani Kasmi  The meanest people are the ones who are hurting inside. …

Overthinking is the biggest cause of unhappiness

Ruminating, catastrophizing and vilifying instead of taking personal accountability are ways that “overthinking” can occur and keep you down. Positive thinking is important but so is identifying and then changing the ways you overthink. It’s easier to be positive when you are aware of the special “overthinking” path …

The important thing in communication

When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know, but if you listen, you may learn something new. ~ Dalai Lama The people who value you and care as much for you as they do themselves will be open and sharing their thoughts and feelings. Sometimes …

Don’t underestimate me because I’m quiet

Wisdom is knowing to speak only with meaning. Words are powerful. They should be chosen carefully. If only people really took the the time to get to know people rather then assume and judge so quickly. ~ Michelle Valadon  In silence you can observe and learn the true meaning …